Again, when we are involved in a long term relationship, there are times when we tend to take for granted the little things that spiced up a relationship. Two of these things I have already brought up, which are writing love letters and going out on dates. The third is about dressing up.
Dress to impress does not only apply to job interviews, or taking out big time clients to dinner. It can also be used when you’re out with a loved one, or in this case, when you want to get back together with your ex.
I would like to share with you why this became my love technique. One time, while my husband and I went out, he commented that I always dress up whenever I go to work or whenever we go out with our friends but never when we go out on dates. When he told me that, I realized that my husband wanted me to look good when we're together especially if it’s just the two of us.
So after that, I made extra effort to look good for him whenever we go out together or even when we're just staying at home. I made sure that when my husband comes home, I look great even in shorts and halter tops or shirts. I also take time to put on some lotion, cologne so that I will smell good for him.
In getting back together with your ex, try to discover what it is that gets the attention of your ex or what he or she wants to see from you. Like in my case, because I'm not really comfortable wearing jewelries, especially earrings, whenever I feel like it, I'll wear a pair of earrings when my husband and I go out on a date. And that never fails to get a compliment from him. Just the other night, my husband told me that when he's got extra cash, he'll buy me a dress because he loves seeing me in a dress.
Maybe your ex wants you to shave often or there are others that want to see a grungier look from you. Maybe you can easily win your ex back by wearing clean casual clothes rather than your usual “I-don’t-really-care-how-I-look” clothes. So start prepping yourself, comb your hair, shave, get some clean clothes and you will probably be getting back together with your one true love.
Dressing up and looking good for your loved one is a wonderful love technique because it greatly helps in a relationship. It makes them feel important too. Makes them feel like we are trying to impress them. Besides, who doesn't want to hear a compliment coming from them right? And of course this works both ways. When your partner dresses up for you, give them a compliment or two. They might pass it as a joke, but it will really make their day.
That it for today, get more tips on getting back together with your ex on our next coming post.
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