Sometimes in a relationship, we take the little things for granted. Little things like dating. You tend to forget the real essence of dating. Now, if you really want to get back together with your ex, you have to learn the value of dating.
After writing your ex a love letter to win her back, you can ask her on a date. Like old times; before you became lovers. Remember those times when you meticulously plan for your date? Yes, that kind of dating is what I’m talking about here.
Oh I know what you're thinking right now, going out on dates can be pretty expensive. But remember guys, you have the choice on where to go or what to do on your date. It doesn't have to be expensive. You don't need to book for months in advance to dine in a fancy restaurant; although that doesn't sound bad especially if you are planning on getting back together with a loved one. But for weekly dates, just go easy on the wallet.
You heard that right! Weekly dates. Take your ex out on a weekly date. If possible, reminisce the memorable dates you have when you were both so in love. That way, she will feel that you really are serious in getting back together.
But I also believe that dating doesn't have to be expensive. Again, you don't need to dine in fancy restaurants. You can either take a walk around the subdivision, talking, holding each other's hands, kissing once in a while or set a nice midnight snack for the two of you and you can cuddle each other on the sofa while watching a movie. Make it simple yet romantic still. And dating is not only for the young ones, you can take your wife or husband out on a date even when you're old and grey.
Weekly dates strengthen the bond of the couple and those people who wanted to get back together with their ex. With all the stress brought about by our jobs, dating can somehow take the stress away. And take note, talk only about each other, about your plans, and your dreams. Do not talk about problems or work related stuff because it will only ruin the mood. Just make each other feel special when you're out on your weekly dates. The most important thing is enjoying each other's company. And don't forget to give each other lots of warm tight hugs and long sweet kisses. This technique will definitely help you in winning your ex back.
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